"Your Husband Is Gay" Cap And he's thriving. This one's for the bold, the unbothered, and everyone who's tired of pretending. Whether it's a truth bomb, a public service announcement, or just a really good conversation starter — this hat does not come with an apology. Part of Accord's merch collection for the lavender marriage community. A portion of proceeds supports Qmunity, Vancouver's LGBTQ+ resource centre.